The Fire You Carry

Everyone carries fire. It is inside of you right now. It may be a spark; it may be embers; or it may be full-blown, raging flames. It may have been given to you by someone; maybe passed on from fathers, mothers, grandparents, coaches, or friends. The fire may be acquired from tragedy and difficulties in your own life. Or it may be passed on to you from someone distant; someone you don't even know; but still they have left a mark. These are the things we talk about on this podcast. We, ourselves, have felt this fire. We continue to strive to become better men, husbands, fathers, friends, and citizens. This podcast is the result of our own journey, of our own discoveries; and it is our hope that you will come along with us and discover your own fire. We are constantly interviewing men we respect; men who have kindled their own fires. They may be successful in the workplace, exemplary as a husband or father, or simply set an example in how they stay fit at any stage of life. We are firemen, and we often focus on issues that we face daily: Trauma and PTSD; from how to stay fit when your life might depend on it; to learning how to be present as a husband and father even when we're gone from home a lot of the time. What we are learning applies to the military, law enforcement, EMS, and even UPS drivers. The principles that make anyone a successful man are universal truths that do not change based on a job description or a phase of life. Come, stoke the fires that you carry, and dare to kindle some new ones.

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The Fire You Carry

213: Fatherhood & Staying Grounded with Landon Patterson of Hundred Acre Wines

February 17, 2025

In this Fire You Carry podcast episode, Kevin and Nole welcome back Landon Patterson, CEO of Hundred Acre Wine Group. The conversation explores Landon's journey in the wine business, the importance of grit and determination in achieving success, and the challenges of parenting in today's world. Landon shares insights on resilience, the balance between work and family life, and how becoming a father has transformed his perspective on life and leadership. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of parenting, particularly focusing on the contrasting styles of mothers and fathers, the challenges of modern masculinity, and the sacrifices that come with fatherhood. They discuss the importance of maintaining discipline and non-negotiables in their routines and the need to balance work and family life, especially when traveling. The dialogue highlights the emotional and physical demands of being a parent and the necessity of being present for their children. In this conversation, Landon and Kevin explore connection, humility, and the importance of giving back. They share personal stories about their experiences with travel, community, and the value of friendships. The discussion also delves into the unique joys of raising daughters. Thank you for listening!

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Kevin Welsh

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